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What they say versus what they mean: the selection code

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A parent reads an email on a laptop at a suburban Australian kitchen table in the evening, phone in hand.

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Your child trialled three weeks ago. The email lands on Tuesday afternoon. Subject line "trial outcome." You open it before you take your coat off.

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