Red flags in a coach: five that mean you act this week.

Last Tuesday at training your kid came home quiet. By Saturday morning they did not want to go to the game. You asked what was wrong and got the half-answer kids give when they do not want to talk about something. You went to the game anyway, stood on the sideline, and watched the coach speak to the team in a way you have not seen before. You have spent the next three days trying to work out whether what you saw was a red flag or whether you are over-reading the moment.